Memories of me..or Jed

So I found this on Janelles's blog and thought it looked pretty fun! Humor me okay?! I'm curious if you remember things that I don't.

Here are the directions:

1. As a comment on this post, leave one memory that you and I had together (or you and Jed). It doesn't matter if you knew me a little or a lot, anything you remember!

2. Next, re-post these instructions on your blog and see how many people leave a memory about you. It's actually pretty funny to see the responses. If you leave a memory about me, I'll assume you're playing the game and I'll come to your blog and leave one about you. If you don't want to play on your blog, or if you don't have a blog, I'll leave my memory of you in my comments. Just let me know which you prefer.

Action Hero

Which Female Action Hero Are You?
	You are part Princess Leia. You are down-to-earth and stick to a rigid sense of ethics. Nerds may lust over you, but everyone looks to you for your grounded logic and intellect.
	You are part The Bride. When you get an idea in your head, you simply won't let it go! You constantly search for normalcy, love, and sometimes revenge--and your vicious stubbornness inspires you to fight to the death to get what you want.
Find Your Character @ BrainFall.com

Our Last Goodbye

Saturday, July 12th was Craig's funeral. It was a beautiful session, one truly fit for a person like Craig. We learned what truly happened that time on the lake...
Craig did jump in to Utah Lake without a life jacket on to retrieve an ore. There was a storm coming in which created 3-4 foot waves which were pushing the boat farther away from him as well as pounding down on him. His mom threw a rope to him while his dad jumped in after him. Unfortunately he didn't make it to him in time and was only a couple feet away when Craig went under. With the lake being so murky it was difficult to see anything and it was safer for his dad to go back to the boat and call for help. Fortunately it didn't take his parents long to feel the peace from our loving Heavenly Father. Craig was an amazing person with an amazing attitude and outlook on life. He will be missed here but is needed elsewhere and will continue to do amazing things.

Thought I'd share this with you, it's from Craig's blog.

7 Things I learned from a Firework!

I haven’t always been left handed. In fact, I still get weirded out when I look down at the stub where my right hand used to be! Christmas vacation this year took me on a road trip to Mexico. Question: Where can you buy better quality fireworks than in Mexico? (Answer: anywhere.) On New Year’s Eve I lit a harmless looking firework at midnight, and a moment later I looked down and realized that my hand took the early bus back to heaven!

All joking aside, I have learned some powerful lessons through that experience. (Surprisingly, most of them have very little to do with firework safety!) Although what occurred was tragic, I believe what I have learned has made me a better person and will continue to bless the lives of many individuals.

1. Don’t buy fireworks in Mexico!

2. There are some things in life that we simply cannot control. (If I hadn’t blown off my hand, some other poor person would have.) It’s okay. As we let go of those things quickly and completely, we become free.

3. “Men are that they might have joy”! Life is good. Laughter heals. Life is funny. There are funny things that happen every day even in the worst of situations. Bad days make good stories. There is a time to laugh and a time to cry. It’s funny that laughter and tears come together so easily.

4. The atonement of Christ brings peace and healing “that surpass all understanding”. We come to know ourselves and we come to know God through our trials. We are surrounded by miracles. When we trade self pity for humility, our eyes are opened to see them.

5. There is so much life to live! Why waste time worrying and stressing about inconsequential things? Spend time doing what matters most—the things that bring the most light and joy to life. Enjoy the ride.

6. Challenges make us stronger and better. With creativity and patience, we are capable of much more than we ever imagined. Our perspective determines our reality. (There is nothing that quite compares with the feeling of accomplishment gained from flossing with one hand for the first time!)

7. We can always lift others, no matter how bad of a situation we are in. It is a divine gift. The only true and lasting joy comes from forgetting ourselves and lifting those around us through love and service.

I would never wish another person to lose their hand. But I hope my experiences and lessons make a difference in your life. Wahoo for the resurrection!!

From the mind and mouth of Reid

I saw this on my sister's blog (her kid's comments are way cute too if you want to check them out, Celeste Hughes)

Reid is 3 years old

1. What is something Mom/Dad always says to you?
Mom: Prayer (he folds his arms)
Dad: Play video game fights

2. What makes Mom/Dad happy?
Mom: Family Home Evening!
Dad: Play with me

3. What makes Mom/Dad sad?
Mom: Rude...and mean too.
Dad: Being mean...to peoples but daddy already put me in timeout.

4. How does Mom/Dad make you laugh?
Mom: Dropping toys (Reid does it and William cracks up)
Dad: tickle him

5. What was Mom/Dad like as a child?
Mom: No answer
Dad: No answer (i don't think he understood it-i've learned that most preschoolers don't realize that we were once kids!)

6. How old is your Mom/Dad?
Mom: 1
Dad: 3, like me!

7. How tall is your mom/dad?
Mom: Like this (reaches both arms up high and stands on his tiptoes-better than saying a giant like he used to!)
Dad: biggest (stands on chair to make himself tall).

8. What is her/his favorite thing to do?
Mom: Paint (HE likes to do that)
Dad: Play with me about the mean peoples dead. and daddy will fight them and they will be dead!

9. What does your mom/dad do when you're not around?
Mom: Wakes me up (NOO, i let him sleep as long as he needs to!)
Dad: No answer

10. If your mom/dad becomes famous, what will it be for?
Mom: Shooting
Dad: Mad

11. What is your mom/dad really good at?
Mom: Playing with me
Dad: Playing with me

12. What is your mom/dad not very good at?
Mom: Saying naughty words
Dad: Not playing with me

13. What does your mom/dad do for work?
Mom: No (either meaning, no i don't want to answer that or no she doesn't have a job)
Dad: Go to school (so true, so true)

14. What is your mom's/dad's favorite food?
Mom: Cheetos (not really, we rarely eat chips other than tortilla from costco, but i do like them)
Dad: Eat at restaurant

15. What makes you proud of your mom/dad?
Mom: Me!
Dad: No answer

16. If your mom/dad were a cartoon character, who would she/he be?
Mom: A job for super heroes
Dad: A Superhero!

17. What do you and your mom/dad do together?
Mom: Play with superheroes and capes
Dad: Play in toy room

18. How are you and your mom/dad the same
Mom: Superheroes (he is way into superheroes right now if you can't tell!)
Dad: Same big

19. How are you and your mom/dad different?
Mom: I'm cool (thanx, and i'm not?)
Dad: No answer

20. How do you know your mom/Dad loves you?
Mom: Give me hugs
Dad:Play

I am soo glad he thinks we play with him a lot because sometimes I feel like we don't! I love this boy and the interesting things he comes up with everyday. His latest is his superhero thing and his super powers he has. I'll post a video on that one later, it's a definite must see!

Deceptively Delicious

On Oprah the other day, Jessica Seinfeld was on. She is the author of Deceptively Delicious. This book is full of recipes with hidden veggies in it! So for those with kids like mine, this book may come in handy. There are 9 recipes on Oprah's website that you can copy and paste and try it out. She also emphasizes the importance of putting veggies on the dinner plate so the kids still get used to eating them!
(From Oprah's site, click on 'Get them to eat without whining'. The the recipes link).

Closure

They recovered Craig's body this morning. It's a heavy blow, knowing that his death is real, but it's nice to have some peace and closure. He's the kind of person that wouldn't want anyone to mourn over his death, rather rejoice in the memories we all have made with him. His family has set up a blog specifically for those who knew him to share their memories. There are some pretty neat ones if anyone is interested in it. Check it out at http://www.craig-decker.com/blog

Craig Decker, our prayers go out to his family

For those of you who do not live in Utah, you may not know of the search going on at Utah Lake. Craig Decker was boating with his family on Saturday. He jumped in the lake to retrieve an ore without a life jacket. The waves were really rough (a storm was coming in) and kept push the boat farther away and him down more into the water. Unfortunately it was too much for him and he went under and never resurfaced. The search was called off Sunday due to bad weather but luckily was called back on today. Unfortunately his body is yet to be found.

Craig is a good friend of Jed's from his Organic Chemistry class at BYU. I was lucky enough to meet him once. He came camping with us (saved me from getting on the boat every time Jed wanted to). He is an amazing person. About a year and a half ago he blew up his hand when a roman candle went off while he was holding it. His story is amazing with the transition he had to face. To read it and see a gory (and I mean gory picture-not for the weak stomachs). Check out his blog http://cddoj.blogspot.com/ (scroll down a bit to find the story). He also has some youtube videos he put up demonstrating how to do things one handed (like tying a shoe).

Craig repelling.

Craig and William walking around. My boys loved hanging out with him. Reid especially enjoyed checking out Craig's hook and looking for his hand! Craig was so easy going about what happened to him. He especially loved when kids would talk to him about it because they were so honest and innocent. (he talks about it also in his blog).


Craig holding the 'catch' (trout) after he gutted it by himself. It amazed me with what he was able to do. Actually, I don't think there is anything he can't do. He is truly an inspiration for us who go through any kind of trials. To just take it in and make the best of it. Like Craig says, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. When life gives you a hook, become a pirate enthusiast!"

Jed says
Craig was an awesome person I only knew him a short time but in that time we became really good friends. We would spend time cat fishing at night and studying o chem. Craig always had a positive attitude and I will really miss him. I know he will be OK, but the world will be a much sadder place without him.